Christian Marriage Crisis Coaching
Save your marriage AND become anchored in God's purpose for your marriage.
End destructive relationship patterns and delete the enemy's hold on you.
Feel deeply secure, truly safe, and lovingly respected by your spouse.
And get there faster using the power of music
with on-demand laser coaching.
MEET THE MUSICAL MARRIAGE MENTOR, ROBIN TUCKER
With the help of the Holy Spirit, using my unique personal and professional experience, my years of coaching, and my music therapy background, I help Christian couples heal and harmonize their purpose-filled marriages.
Together we'll restore your marriage from "barely speaking" to blissfully secure, complete with your own custom love song as an anthem of your renewed love...
...using Biblical principles, simple psychology tools, and musical exercises, backed by the almighty healing power of God.
Are you ready...
To feel safe to express your thoughts and emotions again, like when you were falling in love?
To be able to trust again, and to feel trusted?
To feel deeply seen and heard by your spouse?
To feel cherished, loved, prioritized?
To feel wildly in love again all day, every day?
Would you love...
To fully understand God's true purpose of marriage and of YOUR marriage?
To make a difference for God as a couple in ways you never dreamed of?
To have that secure, powerful, unbreakable Kingdom couple bond?
To get in even closer sync and harmony than ever before?
Maybe you could use some musical marriage mentoring.
Do you love Jesus and fear God, but wonder why your marriage isn't as godly as you'd expected it to be?
Have you stopped going to church regularly or at all, because life got in the way, or you don't feel unified with your spouse and it feels... a little awkward?
Maybe financial difficulties or a stressful job are causing strain on your marriage.
Maybe one of you is an artist or entrepreneur, and the other works a "real job,"
causing verbal or underlying friction.
Maybe you've been divorced once already, or tried to heal from betrayal,
and it still hangs like an unseen cloud over your marriage.
Maybe you're tired of nagging, or being nagged, but don't know how to stop it.
Maybe you feel isolated in your marriage, distant from each other.
Maybe you don't know what to do or talk about together anymore, so you avoid each other.
Maybe your pre-teens or teens have started to pick up that something's not right between the two of you.
Maybe you have a secret long distance romance or crush.
Maybe you found out your spouse watches porn late at night.
Maybe you're starting to feel resistance instead of joy when your spouse comes home.
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Did you know that there is an adversary, an enemy we all share, who DELIGHTS in all of the above trouble and dissension in your marriage? Who actually may be partially causing it?
Who, since disrupting Adam and Eve's marriage with lying and gaslighting, has continued to disrupt marriages in the same way throughout the ages?
1 Peter 5:8
Be sober, be vigilant, because your adversary the devil walks about as a roaring lion,
seeking whom he may devour.
Were you ever taught about the spiritual battle we are in? If not, don't feel badly or be shocked. Many churches don't teach from the Bible; their ministers/ priests only read the easier-to-digest parts, so people will keep coming back and giving money.
The truth is that the spiritual battle is a KEY POINT, EMPHASIZED BY JESUS AND HIS APOSTLES IN THE BIBLE, and even shown in the Old Testament (for example, Job).
But it's hardly ever mentioned in churches today.
Unfortunately, what you don't know CAN lead you to death-- the death of your marriage and of your relationship with Jesus, which will keep you floundering in darkness.
That's exactly the enemy's agenda. He sure hopes you don't find out about it.
Fortunately, we have a complete defense already won and paid for in our Savior, Jesus Christ.
We only need to understand how to wield it for our particular situations
to enjoy the protection of our marriages and homes.
Do you know why God created marriage?
Did you know it was God, not man or society, who created marriage and purposely made it to be the most powerful and lasting human bond?
Did you know that God, being powerfully invested in the success of your marriage,
REALLY WANTS you to have a happy and fruitful marriage?
Did you know that God has a PURPOSE for your particular marriage?
Have you ever read the
Song of Songs
in the Bible?
That very personal book in the Bible no one talks about… God put it there to INSTRUCT and INSPIRE us with a detailed picture of godly courtship, love, and marriage… including in the bedroom!
Want your marriage to be like the blissful Song of Songs?
God does!
That's why He gave us that song.
In fact, as we journey through your marriage healing process, as a professional songwriter, I'll help you write your OWN love song. You can play it anytime to cherish your special love for each other.
Even if one spouse is about to leave, book a call with me.
Even if your spouse doesn’t seem like he or she wants to grow or mend the marriage, your marriage IS still savable, if you can both be motivated to commit to healing.
I may be able, with Jesus' help, to release demonic hold on the unmotivated one and motivate you both. Even if someone's faith is shaky right now.
Do you know why God created marriage?
Did you know it was God, not man or society, who created marriage and purposely made it to be the most powerful and lasting human bond?
Did you know that God, being powerfully invested in the success of your marriage,
REALLY WANTS you to have a happy and fruitful marriage?
Did you know that God has a PURPOSE for your particular marriage?
What if, beyond marriage troubles,
there's a bigger picture?
While we don't know God's purpose for doing anything, it could be that God is calling you to overcome your marriage problems quickly and move into the season of helping others for which He is preparing you, through your specific experiences.
Imagine, when your marriage is healed, the ripple effect that will have on everything in your life-- your parenting, your relationships with family and friends, your careers, your financial impact.
Then imagine if, together, you become an unstoppable team, a Kingdom couple, helping others with the specific things God has equipped you to do?
What if healing your marriage benefits not just you and your family, but many people you’re meant to help?
The people God designed before the beginning of time to come into your life and be blessed with your gifts?
What if healing yourselves and your marriage gifts you and your children, and THEIR children, a true relationship with Christ?
What if, beyond marriage troubles,
there's a bigger picture?
While we don't know God's purpose for doing anything, it could be that God is calling you to overcome your marriage problems quickly and move into the season of helping others for which He is preparing you, through your specific experiences.
Imagine, when your marriage is healed, the ripple effect that will have on everything in your life-- your parenting, your relationships with family and friends, your careers, your financial impact.
Then imagine if, together, you become an unstoppable team, a Kingdom couple, helping others with the specific things God has equipped you to do?
What if healing your marriage benefits not just you and your family, but many people you’re meant to help?
The people God designed before the beginning of time to come into your life and be blessed with your gifts?
What if waiting to heal yourselves and your marriage costs you and your children, and THEIR children, a true relationship with Christ?
Christ is the bridegroom of His church. That means He is preparing us, His church, His bride, to meet him and unite with Him to build and co-rule the awesome Kingdom of God that He will establish here on Earth at His second coming. It will be soon. The timeline is stated in the Bible. We are definitely, without question, in the final end times.
You have an extraordinary opportunity to strengthen and deepen your marriage now,
to not only heal yourselves, but to lend a hand and inspiration to others.
To lead more people to Christ through the way you live.
And when you both are centered on Jesus, your healing can be easier than you might think.
We don’t need a bunch of knock-down-drag-out sessions rehashing all your traumatic events.
We will have to put in the gentle work, but we can reach those a-ha moments sooner, and even have some fun along the way. Using music, and
your specific gifts!
How does it work?
My coaching program is called
Our Marriage SoS.
SoS stands for ... you guessed it... Song of Songs.
I help you and your spouse return to your Song of Songs days,
complete with your very own custom love song.
As a container for your healing process, I use a laser coaching process I’ve honed over a year and a half of volunteering/ researching with over 400 individuals and couples. And I lean on the Holy Spirit to do some of the heavy lifting for us.
- With calm questions no one else may have ever asked you, I can help you restore your emotional wellbeing and peace, even if you haven't experienced that in decades.
- I can help you overcome any hesitation, which stifles your healing, that you may have about feeling your feelings.
- I can help you heal your wounds, some of which may go back to your childhood.
- Through the use of Christian mindset tools and new perspectives, I can help you tighten your bond with your spouse.
- We will call on the healing power of the name of Jesus, as we were authorized to do as believers.
It will be my honor and joy to help you both, as individuals and as a couple, grow closer to Christ and abide in Him.
- Reclaim your special gifts as we explore your purpose in Christ, and Christ's specific purpose for your marriage.
- Feel seen, loved, sweetly held, and respected by your spouse, and I'll help you return those gifts to him/ her, with no resentment or fear in the way.
- Go from "barely talking" to blissfully secure. Feel safe in your marriage. Regain your mutual trust, even if there’s been betrayal. Trust in God, in yourselves, in each other.
- Figure out why you’ve felt distant from God, and I’ll show you both how you can grow closer to Him every day.
- Co-write and co-record your own Song of Songs! (sometimes called Song of Solomon in the Bible). Your own love song of reconciliation.
- And along the whole way, I’ll hold your hands and show you how to continually protect yourselves and your home from any further attacks of the enemy trying to isolate you or break up your marriage.
One of the other really unique things about my coaching is that, unlike traditional marriage counseling or marriage therapy, I'm available to you as many times as you need to meet, five days a week.
Because I know that healing a marriage isn't just a once-a-week thing, and that you can't wait for things to be better. I only take a handful of clients at a time for this reason. I'll explain my unlimited laser coaching process when we speak.
Together we'll restore your marriage from "barely speaking" to blissfully secure, complete with your own custom love song as an anthem of your renewed love...
...using Biblical principles, simple psychology tools, and creative exercises, all backed by the almighty healing power of God.
Notice: I am not saying, nor should any of my marketing ever be construed as saying, that one must come to me for deliverance. I do not call myself a deliverance minister nor a minister of any kind, nor do I specialize in deliverance. My experience has shown that by healing one's wounding and abiding in Jesus, adhering closely to God's laws, and leading a repentant and prayerful life, deliverance can happen naturally. This certainly may not apply to all cases. I make no guarantees as to deliverance, healing, or marriage reconciliation. All of these things are dependent on the client's efforts and, ultimately, are in God's hands.
Disclaimer: Being a Christian coach, and having double experience being divorced, I am PRO-marriage, and I’ll never encourage you to leave your marriage. However, I will also never judge you for your decisions. I will help you be as well-informed, practically and spiritually, and emotionally regulated as possible to make your best decisions. If you’re in a dangerous situation, please make it a priority to get you and your children to safety before contacting me. From there I can speak with you to see how I may help you or refer you for help.
Disclaimer: I offer marriage coaching/mentoring, not marriage therapy or marriage counseling. I’ll be happy to explain the difference when we speak. If I feel that my boutique service is not the best fit for you, I may recommend you seek therapy or counseling.
God calls us to serve others out of our trials and triumphs.
Here's how I'll set you up to easily do so.
Mentoring Certification in my Exclusive Our Marriage Sos Program:
Once you've experienced my approach, supported by the healing power of the Holy Spirit,
at the successful completion of the program
you can receive a certification that you can use to help mentor other couples.
I'll give you the clients, and my team and I will do their Song of Songs.
I'll pay you to mentor them, in support of my work with them.
Everyone wins.
Here Are The 4 Keys to a Rock-Solid Marriage in Christ.
This is what we'll cover during our 6-month journey together...
01
Christ as the Center
Devoting your lives to Jesus is, of course, the essential foundation. Together we'll study Scriptures relevant to your situations to inform, heal, and inspire you to live for Christ and place Him at the center of your marriage. Find out why this is the absolute key to BIG marital happiness and longevity. AND even if one spouse says they're not on board with this, there's still hope.
02
Defense & Healing
I teach you the rules of the spiritual battle we're all in, how and why the enemy is poking and trying to ruin your marriage. We'll customize your own battle plan to defeat his attacks on your marriage and home. HINT: Healing is part of your defense! Once you see the attacks for what they truly are, and build your very simple defense, you have a safe space to heal, and the healing can be permanent.
03
Humming in Harmony
Study the real reasons God created marriage and how He specifically designed it to work smoothly. We work together to develop your character and roles in Christ, so you'll both really be humming in harmony together like a lovely symphony: in service, trust, communication, intimacy, and more.
04
On Purpose
Once you're standing on solid ground in your marriage, it's time to expand your vision and explore the purpose God has for you and for your marriage. What does God want to do through your union, to further His Kingdom? Devoting yourselves to this goal is what it means to be a Kingdom couple.
And Singing Your Song of Songs.
As we work together, we'll document key points in your reconciliation, and write your very own love song.
That's right! I'm a professional singer-songwriter, and I've done high-quality custom songs for half a dozen clients.
There's no better way to commemorate your important journey back to each other and to Christ.
- If you're musical, you can help me play and sing it!
- You'll receive a studio-quality mp3 of the song to keep forever and play to remind you both of what you have and CAN overcome.
- You'll also receive a beautiful wall plaque of the lyrics to grace your home wherever you want to see it every day.
- If you like, I'll even release your special song on all streaming platforms, so you can play it anywhere and share with friends and family.
- You'll even be registered to receive any royalties in accordance with your contribution to the song.
A few happy clients I've worked with...
“Robin's insightful approach allowed me to explore and validate my negative feelings rooted in childhood experiences, alleviating a significant amount of pressure. The tools she provided me with feel tailored to my circumstances & create a clear pathway to successfully navigating the stress and anxiety in my daily life. With this newfound self-understanding, I look forward to applying these valuable tips to real-life situations. Originally planning for just one session, I am now certain that I will reach out to Robin again..”
-- Nancy, Behavioral Health Worker
“Robin is an amazing coach! Before I started, I was at a point where I feeling out of touch with my dreams and passions in life. Since I have been working with Robin, I have felt renewed confidence and encouragement. The course modules have been very effective at helping me realign with my purpose... Knowing my purpose has helped me know how I can better serve others through my gifts. Our group meetings offer a safe space where we can share and offer support with like-minded people. I also enjoy working with Robin in our one on one meetings. She is full of love, wisdom, and creative energy. I look forward to developing my business ideas with her coaching. I highly recommend working with Robin! "
-- Elsa, Artist & Home Caregiver
"Robin’s energy is so authentic and genuine that I genuinely look forward to the weekly calls. I am impressed with how much she knows. I have felt so supported, in a gentle, empathic way that is hard to find in other programs. You can really feel her love and care coming through.”
-- Santou, Grief Counselor
“Robin is nothing short of amazing. One valuable lesson I learned from working with Robin... She helped me really understand and further develop myself confidence. I am now able to have a more heartfelt, successful conversation with my partner. ...Sometimes difficult things have to be talked about, and I realize it's coming from love. Not a judgment, not a criticism, not a complaint but pure love because he wants what's best for me and I want what's best for him. My relationship is so much better after working with Robin. I am so grateful.”
- Jean, Occupational Therapist
"It helped me have better clarity of having (my Facebook) group, looking forward to creating the group and putting people in it. In the 3 months vision I was moved to the point where I’m already there, like I’m already doing it, living with the love of my life, getting married, living the calling that God wants me to to serve people, and really earning. My inspired action 40% self love, 40% my calling to really serve, 30% of time to establish how to really monetize and live that life I declared earlier.”
-- Mel, Online Coach
“My ability to listen more effectively and speak more compassionately has grown immensely since beginning my discussions with Robin. This has improved my relationship with my partner beyond measure! As a bonus, my professional interactions with my peers and my clients have brought returns in value far beyond the cost of these therapeutic sessions. Robin's friendly communication style made it easy to open up to her with sensitive issues, as she's also very respectful and clearly values integrity, privacy, and authenticity. This enabled me to keep our discussions real and raw, while she kept them relevant and actionable.”
- Michael, Economic Advisor
Hello! I'm Robin Tucker.
I'm a former Board-Certified Music Therapist, a trained, experienced relationship coach and life purpose coach, a mom, and a longtime piano singer-songwriter with albums on all streaming platforms. Before I came to Christ, I let my trauma wounding drive me into divorce, destructive relationships, and career failure. Now redeemed, healed of CPTSD, and happily remarried to the godly man of my dreams, I use my coaching and music to help Christian couples heal and grow ever closer to God, through the grace of the Holy Spirit. We can explore God's purpose for your marriage. And I even co-create your very own love song with you, as an anthem of your renewed love. My goal is to equip you to help your family heal, and end generations of trauma. I'm on a mission to stop the devil from tearing families apart anymore. And we're going to sing and dance along the way!
There is hope.
... no matter where you are in your marriage journey. Access my free video series, 3 Keys to a Rock-Solid Marriage in Christ, to discover the ways you both may be held back from deep love with each other, and how to break free.