Dear Empath, Lightworker for God,

Would you like to stop attracting wounded predators like narcissists, avoidants, and addicts?


Are you tired of doubting yourself and feeling drained and distracted?


Are you longing for a life of TRUTH and PEACE?


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Escape the panic room!


I have been there before, for many years, and My heart is full with concern and compassion to help you escape it for good and heal.


My tailored group support experience is designed to help you END the frustrating dance with dangerous patterns that can leave you confused about your reality, including...

Introducing What’s RREAL

- the Escape Room for Empaths

My donation-based, weekly support group is called What’s RREAL - Relationship Recovery for Empaths And Lightworkers. It is a professionally-coached support group, and I will share some of the anonymous stories on my YouTube channel, so you learn the clues to spot predatory personality types, create boundaries to protect yourself, and stay free of those people. You will learn DISCERNMENT between confusion and reality. You will discover how to DECODE and connect the dots between your own past wounding and the destructive relationships you've attracted, and how to lovingly own that. You'll learn how your wounding can be quickly healed when you do so, and how choose differently, to walk confidently out of the room of fear that's had you trapped.

What's RREAL will compliment or accelerate any therapy or other work you’re already doing.

It can give you a fantastic lifeline if you haven’t been able to afford 1-1 therapy.


The online group is led by me, Robin O'Donovan, a degreed and experienced former therapist, now a Christian love and purpose coach. We meet by Zoom once or twice a week, and I bring in guest coaches/ healing practitioners as well.



HERE'S HOW IT WORKS:

Awareness

You are being targeted.

As empaths, we often attract people with unhealed wounding, especially narcissists or people with avoidant behavior, who draw us into a relationship when they have no intention of letting us form a secure, healthy attachment to them.


They sense that we can hold space for them, and that they can manipulate our compassion, our resources (including our money), and our energy. They intuitively know that as a wounded empath, you will be motivated to try to "earn" their "love" and affection by jumping through all kinds of hoops. Or they may try to limit your access to your resources and social life, take up all your time and energy, create a lot of drama for you to help them with, or intimidate you and keep you playing small. All of these tactics give them immense satisfaction and a feeling of control.


It can leave you extremely drained and confused, and even derail your life. 


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Action

Healing is real.

It's time to take back your power, get crystal clarity on your own childhood wounding that attracted these predators, and heal it. 


Our donation-based, professionally-coached support group, What's RREAL, Relationship Recovery for Empaths and Lightworkers, is a loving, safe space to do just that.


You can open space in your life for a loving, joyful relationship with someone who values you for YOU and is ready to support you and grow with you every step of the way. First and foremost, that someone is God, but I believe God also has a special human in mind for you who can be your intimate Earth partner, with whom you can hold such a beautiful space for each other.


You CAN be safe and supported as God truly wishes you to be, to do your beautiful work in the world. 


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Walk your new path

Escape the panic room.

Did you grow up in relationship with a narcissist, avoidant, bipolar, alcoholic, addict, or other neglectful or destructive personality type? Do you continue to attract these people without meaning to?  If so, you may be suffering emotionally, mentally, and physically from Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, or CPTSD, originating in your childhood as a result of traumatic events or circumstances. 


CPTSD can cause you to be emotionally dysregulated, often anxious, with your nervous system feeling "jacked up" in constant fight or flight syndrome. Or you may feel numb, unable to allow yourself to feel anything, as a protective mechanism you learned as a kid.


You may be unable to resist petty, dramatic, knee-jerk reactions when things aren't to your liking. You may actually be addicted to your own stress hormones and unable to discern when someone in your life is a bad influence or a good influence. And especially when under the influence of bad people, it literally feels like being trapped in a constricted room where your body is tensed up and you can barely breathe or think straight.


The good news is, CPTSD IS curable. It starts with connecting the dots between your current behaviors and relationships that make you feel confused or hurt, and the childhood wounding that long ago started you on the pattern path of attracting them.


You CAN take a new, healthy, peaceful, light-filled path. You CAN escape the panic room. There is RREAL hope for you to live the life of your dreams, in true emotional freedom, with the people of your dreams.


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ONCE YOU LEARN...

...to connect these behavior patterns with your traumas and calm your nervous system, then you can dodge narcissism, avoidant behavior, addicts, and many other dysfunctional relationship dynamics in which trauma victims often KEEP LOOPING until you: 

01

Finally CLEARLY connect the dots between your past traumas and your present behavior patterns- including pushing GOOD things and people away.

02

Learn how to get emotionally regulated when you get triggered and your nervous system throws you all out of whack and starts making you do and say things you’ll regret.

03

Learn how to CHEMICALLY rewrite your brain patterns, developed during traumatic events, and end the loop of negative thinking.

04

Learn all the RED FLAGS related to YOUR traumas, so you can avoid destructive patterns and relationships from now on.

05

Learn what a HEALTHY and SAFE, CONSCIOUS relationship looks and feels like (it's NOT really what you see in the movies and shows).

06

Feel totally SAFE to place your trust in the Creator AND in your own discernment, and deeply feel your worth, so you will attract healthy, truly loving people who want to heal and grow with you, not unhealed energy vampires like narcissists and avoidants.


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Relax into this unique healing space.

We’ve got you covered.

This is a weekly, ongoing, comprehensive group coaching experience, with loving and professionally-guided healing space held for you. You may enjoy...

Live, guided  meditations/prayers

... that I conduct during the group session, to help you relax your nervous system and end the loops. They will be recorded, with music added, and available for a small fee, so you can use them over and over. My music therapy degree and experience helps me craft the perfect music for each guided meditation.

Free private

coaching

For a limited time, everyone who joins gets a free, private, 20-minute laser coaching session with me. I've honed this process in a private research project with over 500 people in the past year:


In a few minutes, I can pinpoint how you were treated in your childhood, and what it's been doing to your relationships.

Professional guest

appearances

I am blessed to have many wonderful, very talented and knowledgeable resources and friends. To add to the value of my own expertise, I'll bring in amazing guest coaches and healers to help us with Christian perspectives, somatic clearing, breath work, emotional regulation, and more. People who specialize in divorce recovery, narcissistic recovery, conscious relationships, etc.,  to help expand our pool of solutions.

 "Blessed are the meek.

For they shall inherit the Earth."

MatThew 5:5


I suffered abuse in close relationship with narcissists and avoidants for decades. Through a lot of inner work to heal my childhood wound patterns, I finally realized that it was those relationships that caused me to be haunted by dark entities derailing my life, constantly preying on my wounding to trigger me and skew my judgement, keeping me teetering in despair, compromised health, and financial ruin.


After figuring out the way to exorcize those demonic entities, I now have an unprecedented, deeply researched, Biblical approach to resolving childhood wounding and destructive relationship patterns, for which I have been called to spread awareness.


I will help you understand predatory people like narcissists and avoidants, understand how you attracted THEM and why YOU felt attracted to them, and avoid them once and for all. They have led you astray and into various forms of ruin.


HOWEVER>> YOU must not remain a victim. As a critical part of your healing process, you must take responsibility for any part you had in these destructive relationships (unless you were a child at the time). I will show you how, it is very simple.


My goal is for you to be at peace in the world and for you to carry out, with joy and abundance, how God has called you to help others.


I never wanted to believe it, but I finally had to admit that there is a very real force at work trying to stop us tenderhearted empaths from doing so. There is a mighty spiritual battle going on, with our souls at stake. There are only two armies: the enemy's, or GOD'S. 


The enemy being Satan, who was thrown out of Heaven for idolizing his own beauty and power, thinking he could usurp God's throne. Satan was the original narcissist. Out of spite and malice, because he felt out of control, he manipulated and corrupted Eve, who corrupted Adam. His whole agenda was to prevent the Messiah from being born to redeem God's beloved humans. When he could not prevent that, he doubled down on possessing (through other narcissists and destructive personalities) and manipulating humanity at every turn, to try to keep us from entering and inheriting God's Kingdom - the thing he is forever forbidden to do. This terribly jealous spirit is a narcissist through and through -- and it takes more than clever psychology and somatic tactics to defeat him and his agents.


You are invited to join me in God's army to fight back, with Love.


Here is what I know: Satan preys on our wounding, but GOD heals our wounding. And in the process, Jesus stands up for us before God, to advocate to the Father for His lost sheep.


"Many are called, but few are chosen." Matthew 22:14


I wish to help lead my fellow empaths home to the Father's Love that has never failed me, the Love that has filled in all my gaping wounds and overflowed out of me to help others. I know the way to dismiss any dark entities that have taken hold of you and derailed your life.


The enemy has smugly counted you among his ranks, because he brainwashed you and clouded your understanding. He manipulated and controlled you through his agents, including these predatory personality types, who are nothing but brainwashed and controlled, themselves.


But you are about to switch sides. For Good.


"God resisteth the proud, but giveth grace unto the humble. Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil and he will flee from you." James 4:6-7


AND... I even have the moxy to hope that as our enemy-possessed, prideful predators lose their vital supply of tender empaths, they will not just flee back to dark corners... perhaps by some miracle of God, even THEY will begin to answer God's call, too.


To that aim, let's band together and pray, and support each other in our holy healing. Take back your life now, and rebuild it in the Grace of God.


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A few happy clients...

“Robin's insightful approach allowed me to explore and validate my negative feelings rooted in childhood experiences, alleviating a significant amount of pressure. The tools she provided me with feel tailored to my circumstances & create a clear pathway to successfully navigating the stress and anxiety in my daily life. With this newfound self-understanding, I look forward to applying these valuable tips to real-life situations. Originally planning for just one session, I am now certain that I will reach out to Robin again..”

Nancy D., Behavioral Health Worker

“Robin absolutely brings perspectives into self awareness that will have lasting, positive results. From day 1, she layed a foundation to stand on about the human psyche that left me with a much better understanding and a wanting to learn more. Robin’s gift is bringing you out of your inner head and aptly guiding you to go deep within yourself and discover where habits, behaviors and thoughts REALLY stem from. And not just deal with it but truly heal. And with this new knowledge, I can confidently show up in my life from the workplace to the dating scene and own it! Work with Robin, she will transform you too.”

Chris Tucker, Aviation Mechanic

“My ability to listen more effectively and speak more compassionately has grown immensely since beginning my discussions with Robin. This has improved my relationship with my lover beyond measure! As a bonus, my professional interactions with my peers and my clients have brought returns in value far beyond the cost of these therapeutic sessions. Robin's friendly communication style made it easy to open up to her with sensitive issues, as she's also very respectful and clearly values integrity, privacy, and authenticity. This enabled me to keep our discussions real and raw, while she kept them relevant and actionable.” 

Michael L., Financial Analyst

“Going from where I was this morning, replaying some traumatic events in my life that recently happened, to this now moment, I don’t know what you did, but I feel transformed… I was somehow able to jump into a timeline three months from now and literally imagine what my end result is going to be. And imagining that, it gave me the confirmation I needed… okay, you know what, I can do this, I can break free from my parents, I can break free from my traumas, I can break free from my stories. In my eleven years of healing, I’ve never experienced that before on a call… Never has it …felt like it was going to be a lasting change because in the back of may mind I’m like okay, I’m feeling this now but my mind and ego are like yeah but you’re going to spiral back down. I don’t feel that battle between my mind, ego and heart anymore…. My heart is willing to do whatever it took, but my mind and ego are like wait a sec, you’ve tried that before and look where it got you, it got taken away so what’s the point of even trying anymore.

I don’t feel that anymore.”

Michael Aurelius, Affiliate Marketer

“Robin is nothing short of amazing. One valuable lesson I learned from working with Robin... I had to learn to really love myself, instead of only expecting my partner to love me the way I wanted to be loved..... Because I really did not know how to love me.... She also helped me really understand and further develop myself confidence. I am now able to have a more heartfelt, successful conversation with my partner. ...Sometimes difficult things have to be talked about, and I realize it's coming from love. Not a judgment, not a criticism, not a complaint but pure love because he wants what's best for me and I want what's best for him. My love life is so much better after working with Robin. I am so grateful.”

Jean Virnig, Occupational Therapist

“Robin's a fearless genius. Not that she's immune to fear it's that she's done the hard work to overcome her shadow side; and it's not that she was born a genius necessarily (maybe tho haha) but more that she's learned how to step INTO her genius and she can help you do the same. Bring THAT to your current or next relationship and you'll have a much lighter and brighter future ahead. She's helped me in so many ways that have more to do with my relationship with my SELF, so that my relationships both romantic and platonic have been endlessly more easy & fruitful. Best decision you could make is to work with Robin - highly recommended.” 

Schroeder N., Voice Coach

Meet your coach

Robin O'Donovan

An empath and intuitive who had to develop keen psychological awareness to navigate a traumatic childhood, I hold a dual degree, and many combined years of experience, in music therapy and psychology. Having counseled over 500 people, I am an experienced love and life purpose coach, plus a lifelong musician. My mission is to show you the comprehensive way to heal your trauma wound patterns, through the support of a loving, proactive, Christ-centered community.


After a lifetime of close relationships with avoidants and narcissists, my loving fiance has given me a healthy, safe environment in which to heal and totally be myself. I give him the same, as we grow together in the grace of God, with endless joy. My teenage kids look up to him and trust him completely. Not being married yet, we follow God's Commandments implicitly and trust in His timing and intention for our lives.


In the first few weeks of my twelve years of intense healing work, God cured me (without any medication) of depression, brain fog, rheumatoid arthritis, and chronic fatigue syndrome. I walk my talk and humbly live my life purpose every day as a lighthouse of God's love, for you to live in peace, enjoy your life purpose and your relatonships, and light the way for your own followers.

FAQs

Questions? I am here to help.

  • Do I need to be Christian to join?

    You don't need to be Christian or an active Christian to join us; we welcome everyone who feels called to their healing. 


    God wants you to give your healing to Him, and He is ready to help you be who you are meant to be, without drama, confusion or distraction.

  • What if I can't make it to each session?

    Sessions will be recorded, and I will repost  the Q&A part (showing only me talking) on Youtube and send out the link weekly to members, with extra nuggets not found on YourTube.

  • May I try the group out for free?

    Yes, we have an open house once a month. It's only an hour long session, and only existing members will get their questions answered during those sessions (questions are always submitted in writing before sessions), but you are welcome to join us and hear the answers, it may pertain to your situation. Please see the Calendar page for the schedule of Open House (1 hour) and regular member sessions (which are normally 2 hours).


    Remember that if you enroll as a paid member, you have 8 days to evaulate the group and attend a session (there will always be at least 1-2 sessions every 8 days) and receive your money back in full if you don't feel it's for you. So it may be to your best advantage to go ahead and join rather than wait for an open house.

  • What happens after I enroll?

    You'll receive an email detailing the session times, Zoom link, my calendar link to book your complimentary 20-minute laser coaching session, and simple instructions on how to send me your questions for Q&A.

  • Is my participation confidential?

    Yes, your participation is 100% confidential only to me, my company, and the group. In fact, during the sessions I will have the recording camera only on me, unless you wish to appear on camera. I will share the rules for participating (including keeping all session content confidential) and help you keep your Zoom name anonymous for these sessions, if you like. While I highly encourage everyone to be on camera to show support, it's not mandatory.

  • Is this a dating group?

    No. The space being created is for focusing on our own healing from traumatic relationships and events, not on fostering new relationships with members. Private chat in Zoom will be disabled for participants. Again, this is to protect the healing space we are holding. Anyone pushing the boundary on this will be expelled from the group with no refund.


    That being said, you will likely be healing alongside others with the same type of background and energy as you, which, once you are ready, may be a good catalyst for meeting a healthy partner. I can refer you to my nationwide meetup group specifically for dating. 

  • What if I need to cancel my membership?

    No problem. Simply email me or text me anytime (email and number given in your welcome email) and I'll get you all taken care of. You can also follow the subscription management link in your latest invoice. 


    If you cancel within the first 8 days of your membership AND you have fully attended at least one group session, you will be refunded in full for your payment. I want to give you a chance to be sure the experience will be effective for you and that you feel safe.

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